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Today is the feast day of St. Louis Marie de Montford. Here is piece that Brian wrote for RoL.

St. Louis Marie de Montfort: Patron Saint of Rejection (1673-1716) By Brian


Recently, I finished reading a book on the life of St. Louis Marie de Montfort (1673-1716). This apostle of the Rosary, vagabond preacher, friend of the cross and author of numerous works, including True Devotion to Mary, could easily be considered the "patron saint of rejection."

Within St. Peter's Basilica, high up in one of the many columns that support the infrastructure, is a niche which contains a life size statue of St. Louis de Montfort. Whoever sculpted the statute did an awesome job depicting the saint as a humble priest who was a spiritual powerhouse. Whenever I see a picture of the statue, I notice two things immediately. First, under his feet De Montfort is crushing the devil, who has taken the form of a serpent. Second, he is cradling a large crucifix in his left arm.

Throughout de Montfort's life the cross loomed largely. Like His Savior who carried the Cross to Calvary for the salvation of the world, St. Louis imitated and obeyed Jesus who said, "He who does not take up his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me." (Mt. 10:38).

As I read about the life of St. Louis de Montfort, it became apparent that many of his peers during his own day saw him as an odd priest. For the most part, this was due to the way he lived his priestly vocation. His calling to be a missionary led him to embrace the life of a tramp. It also led him to embrace a life of poverty where he associated with the poor and destitute. It led him to take the Gospel literally and live out his vocation in extreme austerity. It helped him to pray constantly and fully abandon himself to Divine Providence. Through all of this he developed a reputation of being strange and a bit bizarre, even though he was quite the contrary.

His way of life, his approach to living the Catholic faith and his identity as a missionary left him a marked man. Whether it was Lent, Advent, the Easter season or Ordinary Time, de Montfort carried the cross of rejection wherever he went. Of course he gave parish missions and inspired the faithful to live and love their faith, but more often than not, St. Louis was given a cold shoulder and the silent treatment by numerous bishops and fellow priests.

Time and time again, he would enter a diocese to speak with the Bishop to receive permission to celebrate Mass, hear confessions, and preach missions. Many bishops who heard rumors about this strange missionary would immediately send him on his way denying him permission to do anything except leave the diocese.

What is so amazing and striking about de Montfort was his total acceptance of rejection which had become his constant companion. It seems that he was quite at home with the reality that many people, especially brother priests and religious, continuously rejected him and his way of life. Again this did not alter or faze de Montfort. He made sure he kept close to Mary and followed whatever path that she placed him on.

Rejection is quite common. I am sure all of us have experienced rejection and the feelings that are associated with it. Even Christ Our Lord experienced in a most profound way the rejection of others when He hung upon the Cross, dying a slow and painful death. Because rejection, however unfortunate it may be, seems a universal experience the question that remains is how do we deal with it in a manner that will give glory to God? I believe the example set by St. Louis de Montfort suggests several ways to handle rejection.

One of the ways St. Louis handled rejection was by recognizing that nothing ever happens to us without God permitting it. St. Louis understood at the deepest level of his soul that God loved him and that whatever happened to him, including being rejected, did not change this fact. Another way that St. Louis handled rejection was through reflection and meditation upon the "ultimate rejection" Christ experienced on the Cross. The servant is no greater than the Master, therefore if Christ endured rejection why not us? Lastly, St. Louis turned to Mary by praying the Rosary. Through the recitation of the Rosary, Our Lady tenderly embraced St. Louis, consoled him and helped him overcome the rejection he suffered.

I believe if we keep the threefold example set forth by St. Louis de Montfort when experiencing rejection, we would merit great graces. His threefold example of accepting God's Will by knowing God's love for him, his constant reflection upon Jesus Crucified, and the recitation of the Rosary will enable us to handle and endure rejection.

Rejection is never easy to accept and for most of us who have experienced it, it can be downright painful. But now we have a patron saint of rejection whom we can turn to for inspiration and help.

St. Louis de Montfort, pray for us!

God bless!

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Pregnancy Belly Band

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Now that my belly is well on it's way towards pregnancy hugeness, I was looking for a way to stay in my fave jeans for as long as possible. I came across the Belly Bands Combo that turns your regular jeans or pants into preggers-friendly clothes. I gave it a try and so far I love it! I am still on the shorter extender but most likely in another month or so, I will need the larger extender. If you are in the same situation, check it out!

UPDATE: Our baby has since been born but I wanted to let you know that I never wore maternity pants during this pregnancy. With the belly band I was able to wear my regular jeans throughout, even at the end when I was huge!


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Humor: Pregnancy Q & A

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I was browsing the Phatmass Phorum and came across this funny post from awhile back. It seemed appropriate since I am feeling very pregnant at the moment. :-)

PREGNANCY Q & A & more!

Q: Should I have a baby after 35?
A: No, 35 children is enough.

Q : I'm two months pregnant now. When will my baby move?
A: With any luck, right after he finishes college.

Q : What is the most reliable method to determine a baby's sex?
A: Childbirth.

Q: My wife is five months pregnant and so moody that sometimes she's borderline irrational.
A: So what's your question?

Q : My childbirth instructor says it's not pain I'll feel during labor, but pressure. Is she right?
A: Yes, in the same way that a tornado might be called an air current.

Q: When is the best time to get an epidural?
A: Right after you find out you're pregnant.

Q : Is there any reason I have to be in the delivery room while my wife is in labor?
A: Not unless the word 'alimony' means anything to you.

Q: Is there anything I should avoid while recovering from childbirth?
A: Yes, pregnancy.

Q : Do I have to have a baby shower?
A: Not if you change the baby's diaper very quickly.

Q : Our baby was born last week. When will my wife begin to feel and act normal again?
A: When the kids are in college.

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I had not heard of this guy before but he has a beautiful story of conversion. Check out the videos below or read the article/video text here.

Paddy's Conversion Story

Paddy Singing "Abba Father" in Medjugorje

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FOR TODAY: Thursday, April 16, 2009
Outside my window... the sun is trying to break through the fog.
I am thinking... that I should finish cleaning out the kid's closet.
I am thankful for... it being my ten year anniversary from the day I first met Brian face-to-face. (After months of emails and phone calls.)
From the learning rooms... there are markers and construction paper scattered on the table.
From the kitchen... the dishes are washed.
I am wearing... black sweat/yoga pants, white tank, blue maternity top.
I am creating... a new post.
I am going... to order Papa Chanos for dinner tonight to celebrate.
I am reading... Agatha Christie.
I am hoping... Brian gets home soon.
I am hearing... Imagination Movers on the TV.
Around the house... are various toys.
One of my favorite things... the kids are asleep early and I have some quiet time with Brian.
A few plans for the rest of the week: Sunday picnic with family and friends.
Here is picture I am sharing... (The kids on Easter Sunday at Oma and Opa's.)
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Thanks to The Simple Woman's Daybook for the questions.

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I hope you are having a blessed Good Friday. Just a reminder that today is the first day of the Divine Mercy Novena. If you need a copy of the novena, you can find one here at EWTN.


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Peter at a Distance

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Here is a post from Brian.

Peter at a Distance by Brian

Imagine the scene: Jesus has just been arrested by the crowds and is being taken to the High Priest Caiphias along with the scribes and elders. Following the crowd, but from afar, moving from one shadow to the next so as not to be detected, is St. Peter.

According to Mt. 26:57-58, St. Peter "followed at a distance." This is the same man who earlier in the Gospel declared before the other Apostles that Jesus was the Messiah, "the Son of the living God." Because of this Jesus named Peter, "Rock."

When Jesus performed his miracles and the crowds were thronging to listen to Him, Peter's faith was strong and firm. However, when the crowd came with clubs to arrest Jesus, Peter's faith and allegiance, as Jesus predicted, wavered.

As I reflected on St. Peter following Christ from a distance, I couldn't help but relate to him. When things are going well, how easy it is to walk side by side with Christ, but when the cross over shadows you or when you are called to exercise your faith in a heroic way, which will cause you to be ridiculed or persecuted, it becomes easy to follow Jesus from a distance.

As Lent winds down and the shadow of the cross on Good Friday gives way to light of the resurrection on Easter Sunday, let us pray for one another and ask the Holy Spirit for the courage and strength necessary to respond to Jesus' invitation to "come follow me." Not from a distance, but stride for stride.

Let us also look to St. Peter, who after experiencing the risen Lord, followed Jesus so closely that he chose to die by way of the cross, as His Master did.

God bless!

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Here is a powerful witness from a feisty young woman who pulls no punches.

PART 1

PART 2

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Brian and I love Masterpiece Theatre and were excited to watch Andrew Davies' (Bleak House, Pride & Prejudice) adaptation of Charles Dickens' Little Dorrit. Check it out on Sunday nights at 9PM on your local PBS station. If you missed the first installment on Sunday night, you can watch it online at http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/littledorrit/watch.html or rent the DVD. Enjoy!

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